Sometimes world can be bad place to live in and people we consider friends may eventually turn down on us. At times, people are not that honest and pure-hearted as they pretend to be. The right way to deal with problems such as jealousy and disappointment is to put on a smiley face and carry on. The sooner you learn to identify people's true intentions the better life you will have.
We have put together a list of the things that are strongly recommendable not to share out loud.
Personal secrets
Every person has at least one dark secret. If there is an event in your life you feel uncomfortable about, keep it only to yourself. It can be hard sometimes. Orwel has put in this way “If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself.” Truth is people can't keep secrets. The moment they know about it they are likely to tell someone else. That 's not a betrayal, at least not in general. This is human nature. Only few are worthy to have your secret so choose your friends wisely. You must be 100% sure that this person you are telling your secret will honor it and never tell it to anyone. If you have trust issues, then probably it would be better to hide your top secrets as deep as you can.
Incomes
Your monthly salary or freelance revenue might give some people a reason to grow jealous of you. If you have an income high from the average, avoid making this public. Showing off would be a worse idea. High paid jobs come with certain responsibilities and personal sacrifice but people will have eyes to see only how much money you make, not on what cost. So, in order to avoid provoking dark energy on yourself, try to share information about money revenue only with like-minded people who are your long-time friends. Unless you want to see how your list of ill-wishers grows big, try to brag about your payments and see what happens.
Social media presence has become very popular for the last decade. What people find hard to understand is that it is not healthy to share on the Web every single thing that has happened to you throughout the day or week. When it comes to sharing and updating status, it's advisable for you to establish some boundaries.
Here is a valuable list of things that are highly reasonable to consider not sharing on social media:
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News and updates from games like Farmville or Mafia wars on Facebook.
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Angry statuses about you complaining of your work or criticizing your boss.
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Bragging about having an affair with a married person - there is a good chance that information will reach the betrayed spouse.
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Personal drama.- Whether it is you going through a rough patch or your friend is, keep this away from social media.
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Financial information. Review what we wrote about keeping your incomes to yourself or only the closest people of your social circle.
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Posting pictures of food every 2 hours.
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Details about your upcoming vacation. Such information will certainly attract the attentions of potential burglars.
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Delicate information about your parents like if they are dealing with difficult time in their relationship.
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Political opinions. Be careful there. Avoid angry political posts, heavily criticizing new policy the government have applied.
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Going to the extreme while discussing topic on religious matter.
Offensive jokes. You might laugh your head off to this joke but that doesn't mean that everybody gets it the same way. Jokes can get you in a lot of trouble.
